Top tips for co-parenting during the summer holidays
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Despite what the weather forecast says here in the UK, the school summer holidays are upon us…
For many, this can be a wonderful time for families to relax, create lasting memories and have some fun together. However, for co-parents, this period can also present its own set of unique challenges.
Here at DRN Law, our Family Law department have put together some top tips for co-parenting during the summer holidays, including crucial information about travelling abroad, letters of consent and planning ahead.
Let’s dive in…
1. Creating a detailed schedule
It’s common for both parents to want to spend their own quality time with their children. Therefore, planning the summer holidays well in advance can be a great way to ensure both parents feel valued in their parenting roles while also providing the children with a stable and enjoyable summer experience.
Sitting down with your co-parent to discuss and agree on a detailed schedule is a great way to ensure both parents get to spend time with their children and plan accordingly. It is wise to discuss specific dates for holidays abroad, trips within the UK and any special events you may have planned. This ensures both parents and children know what to expect.
In the UK, Child Arrangements Orders from the Family Court can define where the child lives and how much time they spend with each parent. Please make sure that any holiday plans align with these orders to avoid legal complications.
2. Flexibility is key
While it’s important to have a plan, being flexible is equally crucial. Unexpected events or changes in plans can occur, so be prepared to accommodate these changes where possible to avoid unnecessary stress.
3. Creating new traditions
Co-parenting can often be difficult for parents and children. Use the summer holidays to create new traditions and memories with children, as this will strengthen the bond between the family and help to provide children with a sense of continuity and stability.
4. Communicate effectively
Furthermore, maintaining open and respectful communication with your co-parent is vital. Using tools like shared calendars to keep each other informed about plans and changes can be a great, low-effort way to ensure that everyone is on the same page and any issues are addressed promptly.
We would also recommend discussing and agreeing on expectations and rules for the summer holidays. This includes bedtimes, screen time, and activities, ensuring consistency for the children and reducing potential conflicts.
5. Putting the children first
It is always wise that holiday plans are in the best interests of the children. Consider their preferences, comfort, and routines when making decisions, and aim to provide a stable and enjoyable environment. Getting them involved in the planning processes and asking for their opinions on activities can be a great way to keep them engaged, excited and happy with their summer plans.
6. Sharing travel information and legal considerations
Crucially, if either parent is planning to travel abroad with the children, it’s essential to share detailed travel plans with the other parent. This includes itineraries, contact information, and accommodation details to ensure everyone is informed and comfortable with the arrangements.
Before making any holiday or travel plans, ensure that they comply with your existing custody agreement. If changes are needed, discuss them well in advance and make any necessary legal adjustments to avoid potential disputes.
When travelling abroad, it’s important to have all necessary travel documents in order. This includes passports and a letter of consent from the non-travelling parent. Letters of consent can also ease travel arrangements for grandparents or other family members accompanying a child, as they prove parental permission for the child to travel.
Additionally, these letters can also prevent complications at passport control, especially if the child has a different surname. It is important to note that letters of consent are not required for travel to every country, so it is always worth checking.
What to include in a letter of consent:
- 1. Full names and contact information of both parents or legal guardians.
- 2. Your child’s full name and date of birth.
- 3. Specific details of the trip, including destination, duration, and dates of travel.
- 4. The signature of the parent(s) or legal guardian(s) providing consent.
- 5. Notarisation or witnessing by a legal authority for added authenticity (optional).
Unsure if you require a notarised letter of consent to travel abroad?
Contact our Family Law department for expert guidance on 01282 433 241.
7. Seeking legal advice
Finally, If there are uncertainties or disputes regarding custody or travel arrangements, consult with a Family Law Solicitor to understand your rights and obligations. At DRN Law, our Family Law solicitors can help you navigate complex situations and make sure your summer holidays go as planned and comply with UK law.
